What Are the Negatives of Living in Japan?

Living in Japan offers a unique experience, and for many expats, the question of whether it’s enjoyable depends largely on one’s attitude towards Japanese culture, history, and lifestyle. If you're someone who works for a Japanese company during weekdays, receives an average monthly salary, lives in an apartment in a large city near Tokyo, and speaks intermediate Japanese, your experience will largely hinge on how much you embrace Japan’s culture and societal norms.

For those who may not be particularly invested in Japan’s culture, history, or social expectations, life in Japan might feel restrictive. The things you find impressive or admirable in Japan often result from a set of social expectations and norms that require effort and commitment.

Why Does Japan Feel So Different?

Some common observations about Japan often come with underlying questions: Why are there no trash bins on the streets and roads? Why are train passengers so quiet? What makes Japan one of the safest countries in the world? Why are trains so punctual? Why are there so few honking cars on the road?

These aspects of Japan, which may initially seem impressive or unique, are all based on societal efforts that everyone must contribute to. For example, in Japanese companies, it’s expected that you act promptly and on time. If you're attending a meeting, it’s customary to arrive at least five minutes early. If you’re the meeting organizer, everything should be ready five minutes before the scheduled time. There’s little room for personal excuses—this is part of the reason why Japan’s trains run with such precision.

Do Not Disturb Others: The Core of Japanese Society

One key principle in Japanese society is the idea of "Do not disturb others." This means that asserting personal rights or indulging in behaviors that might inconvenience others is considered selfish. For example, making noise in public spaces, such as on trains, is generally frowned upon, as it disturbs the quiet atmosphere that most people value. The idea of being considerate of others’ needs is deeply embedded in Japanese culture.

In comparison, many other societies place more emphasis on individual freedom and self-expression. However, in Japan, the prioritization of group harmony and consideration for others contributes significantly to the country's safety and social order. This is reflected in the quiet and organized nature of public spaces like Shibuya in Tokyo.

The Importance of Public Cleanliness

In Japan, the streets are remarkably clean, and it’s common to see individuals taking personal responsibility for maintaining public spaces. A few years ago, the problem of overflowing trash cans in places like Shibuya led to a decision to remove trash bins altogether. This move helped address cleanliness concerns, with people becoming more conscientious about not littering.

When considering the question of whether to have trash cans or not, think about the long-term impact. The removal of trash bins in public places has resulted in cleaner streets and a more responsible public. This contrasts with some other places where trash cans are overfilled and contribute to unsightly waste on the streets.

Why Are Japanese Roads So Quiet?

Another notable difference in Japan is the quietness of its roads. In other countries, it’s common to hear car horns honking, often in frustration or as a form of communication. In Japan, however, the focus is on maintaining calmness and avoiding disturbance to others, even while driving. This cultural tendency leads to fewer accidents and a more relaxed driving experience.

Answering the Question: What’s the Verdict?

The answer to whether life in Japan feels cramped or comfortable largely depends on individual perspectives. Many foreigners may feel that life in Japan is well-organized, safe, and comfortable, especially compared to their home countries. Parents, for example, might appreciate the fact that their children can play outside freely and ride trains by themselves. However, some might find the meticulousness of Japanese society frustrating, such as the requirement to clean plastic bottles before disposing of them or the expectation to maintain public cleanliness.

As someone who has lived in Japan for over five years, you might find that many of these social behaviors start to feel natural. Upon returning to your home country, you may notice a sense of dissatisfaction with certain practices or customs that are not as well organized or considerate of others. In particular, the concept of not disturbing others may become a deeply ingrained value.

Conclusion

Living in Japan is not without its challenges, but it offers many rewards for those willing to embrace its cultural expectations and social norms. While some may find Japan’s way of life restrictive, others appreciate its orderliness, safety, and respect for others. Ultimately, whether you find Japan’s lifestyle appealing depends on your personal preferences and willingness to adapt to a society where harmony and consideration for others take precedence.

If you don’t mind the small living spaces typical in Japan, and if you have the means, you can always adjust your living situation. However, for most, living in Japan is a unique and enriching experience that rewards those who value both personal and collective responsibility.